It’s not just a temper! You are an uncut Wild Jem

 

For ALL my strong Ladies!

Just so you know, you are not the only one !

I am learning that when God calls strong Men, they have strong powerful women, unfortunately often willful un-submissiveness, and overbearing and stubborn. Your thinking “ya that is my curse a tongue”! Well you know, there is a reason you are so strong natured. The truth is you were chosen for that purpose that strength, you were hand picked to be his wife, because of the call he has for you. Only a strong woman could hold up to the pressures God has called you to walk in .the only difference is that He wants to mold that strong spirit into his perfect grace, tempered by his presence

 -tempered means  

tem·pered [témpərd]

adj

1.     with a particular temper: with a temper or temperament of a particular quality (usually used in combination) even-tempered

2.     well proportioned: with elements combined in balanced and suitable proportion 

3.     industry hardened: hardened through a tempering process

4.     tempered steel

5.     music tuned to a temperament: tuned to a particular temperament, especially equal temperament 

 You see your temper and his temper have similarities, but differences in purpose.

He made you this way, not for rebuking your man but for the purpose of strengthening, upholding and of calling him out into perfection of Christ. Not in the anger over him, or discipline of him, but by your gentle Godly character. You are to be tempered with Grace and won over by His presence. Your strength, has been your weakness But he planned it for your good and the praise Of His Glory.

You must be thinking, “How on earth did He think I could become tempered gentle and gracious, He must have been seeing someone else”. Nope He does not make mistakes you know you are called, you know you are chosen and further more he knows that He can accomplish this work in you!  

It’s not just your temper; you’re just an uncut wild gem waiting for the hammer to perfect your beauty. Are going to resist the irritating tap and become permanently flawed. On the other hand, will you allow the little life circumstances you face to delicately shape your beauty into a jem that brings both honor to your husband, and helps shape him into the man you always wanted. Sometimes being a wife in ministry can be trying as he is often out late, or must be called away without notice. these time can really rankle a girl as they take away from the things you felt were important but when I prayed through my anger ,I found that he was not to blame but Christ and how could I refuse Him using my husband for His purposes . Yes, they are human and, you know what they don’t always think ahead of how they could have broken that to us better or planned it better. But sister they are growing too, just like you! They are still figuring all this out, when we accept the Lords call; we are never given the whole picture of our future with our men. We say either yes or no, and sometimes that call seems insurmountable, unrealistic. But we are talking about the King here He said, “All things are possible “that means you too. In your heart, the Lord has given you visions of his personal call on you, and some days or most you resist. I tell you if not you than who, who else can love your man with the hands of Jesus, who would you want too? So I admonish you ladies don’t resist the call He has chosen for you! Don’t turn your back on the call he has chosen for you both, don’t resist His hammer as it is for your good instead ,say “Father My heart, my hands, My tongue, My will, they are your. Remove the filth from this uncut jem you value so, and shape me into our perfect will, a stone worthy of all you have for me. Let me show love with in my God given Strength, instead of unworthiness. Let me bring peace instead of discord and resentment. Train my heart to follow after yours. In Jesus Name Amen

 ~Love Melody