Arise and call her blessed

A Christian Marriage Can still hurt!

Did you know if this is you are not alone and neither I he!

Every single guy is faces daily with the choice to take that second glance

Moreover, almost every Christian even pastors are either Fighting or fooling in hard core Porn.

If this is you peaking around the door for the first time, it can be a very overwhelming, and emotional. A moment that can either destroy of feed your future faith and love. Believe it or not, most guys are not doing it because they hate you or think you are ugly. They do it because it feels good, kind of like other things they do alone, that would be better done with you. Whether it is masturbating alone or eyeballing the tight pants crossing the street or flipping through the pages of naked girls or other it is not God’s design but now what.

Firstly Love

If this is you, you need to get your heart right. First thing you must do is; stop, and forgive them, right now, unconditional, without reservation. Now you can go in the room. The first thing you will notice is that even though you are deeply hurting your heart is aching because of your love for him. Quietly walk up even if the fingers are flying to shut it down, and he is starting to get defensive, making excuses or even lying. Before you utter a word, Give him a hug, and say do you know how much I love you! 

Secondly, Be filled gentle grace

Realize that

• They already know what they are doing you don’t have to ask, or tell them!
• As a Christian, they are ashamed of it!
• Know that they really don’t want to keep this up, but do not know how to quite.

The key to solving this problem is in finding unhindered communication, being able to talk about his feelings, and what he is looking at in somewhat detail. He has to become vulnerable. Nevertheless, I guarantee this he will not even open his mouth if he feels of finds judgment instead of encouraging love, Love to help and change

When he knows you are with him and for him and not against him this will happen

Thirdly be vulnerable with each other

Start sharing openly about your mistakes, your failures, you weaknesses. This can hurt but in love and prayer, forgiving first without reservation I can heal as you can finally see him through the father’s eyes past your pain. Agree to go to each other when you fall to hold one another, share, and forgive not later, not now, before! You need to be his accountability partner, this is you job first not his friends. You are not fighting alone but together, not against each other, but for each other. This may not be easy, it may mean removing together the thing that most tempts. Whether it is internet or changing jobs so they don’t have to deal with the tall stack of trash in the box in front of the toilette. This is not an easy fight ladies it is a hard battle but with God’s love you can do this, they can do this and with His help and wisdom

 “You Will Win “!

I like to rise before the sun. Not always awake, I stagger into the kitchen, and sit in my comfy chair. At the big bay window across from my honey, he pours me a cup of coffee, and before he take off for work we enjoy our sacred alone time. Sometimes a little one quietly slips into my lap unnoticed, is kissed cuddles then sent back down stairs to look at his story bible for devotions, as this quiet time with my lover is just for us. He kisses me good-bye, and is off to the shop to spend his first hour there with lord. Now we both sit, me in my chair, and he in his, in the ministry office above the leather shop. The early morning sun just is rising above skyline, glistening through the tree. The drips of dew, and early frost glistening as they fall quietly to the ground. We crack our Bibles, and hear the heart of the father, as he baths us in the warmth of the rising sun. Words of hope and prophetic mysteries jump off the pages, as we hungrily read every word, often going back a few times to understand.
 I hear a little one cry in the background, and know my quiet time alone with my lover is almost over. Little hungry footsteps tiptoe down the hall. The sun is just above the rooftops now, a new day has begun. Thank you father for our sacred moments, thank you for your peace for the future, thank you for your sweet revelations, and the little hearts you have entrusted to my care. Be our guide and strength for the day. Until tomorrow, sweat lover my heart I in your care. – <3 Melody  

Christian Goblins or angels a night to remember!

At school, we wrote poems of ghoulish glop and witches brew the grosser the better almost as if competing for the best yuck. As soon as I could write, my hands eagerly created the poetry that I knew would make me popular in my class. However, when I got home I found a different story I learned that the weeks prior to this hallowed (Holy) night were not as it seemed.

 Millions of Christian around the World are shopping and planning for the fun playful festivities of the last night of summer, and the first night of the fall. When the earth seams to die just to be reborn in the spring. So we eagerly celebrate death and gorge on its dainty tantalizing treats, and tricks all in the name of pure innocent fun. However, other homes on this night are also panning there family fun. Unlike yours, there ecstatic pleasure comes from the heart, they look forward to this night all year round as their most sacred spiritual event, looking to honor their Father and watch he returns to the earth, as he wakes from slumber through the annual death of his wife. This is the season for feasting! Did you not know a life is stolen to sacrifice to there God? This is a time for eating the flesh of a child, innocent and pure; does this look so festive now? but lets go farther, don’t forget to burn her little fats in your pumpkin sitting on your steps , oh sorry I forgot to mention this year it might have been your daughter, but you lost the lottery on that, instead it was her friend. So while the feasting goes on with them. We run around merrily all dressed up... like the demons flying through the night. Our costumes resembling their greatest moments in history with the gruesomeness of the victims they helped to kill. This is the night of incredible demonic revelry, as they fly past us unknowingly, licking, touching, and tormenting, and stick to us like Velcro as we partake in their bloody  party, engorged on blood of the innocent and the whine of their religious erotic sexual orgies. When the feasting dies down the little ones are all snug and safe again in there sweet little bed with smudges of face paint still clinging to there little faces. Bellies full of sweets and yummiest sleeping gently and peacefully, we rest knowing all is safe and sound. But are they really, are you? No instead, the demons assigned to the costumes, the treats, and evils of the night come out to haunt to rape and torment our babies in their sleep. Why does she wake crying, “There is something in my room”? Why must we have night-lights to show the creature that lives under the bed, and in the closet? I can tell you, it is because they do! You have invited them there, with God given Right (1 Samuel 16:14); you purchased them for your child. You opened the door to let them in, and shared your food with them on this Holy Night. Instead you say “its okay, they are gone in Jesus Name”, yet, are they really or did they just crawl back into there assigned object Not permitted to leave until the sin is removed, and confessed (! John 1:9). Given Complete freedom come out later, to torment the child of there choosing? To roam freely through your home, from room to room, watching, feasting, fantasizing, and encouraging their masters pleasures through out. Have A Happy Halloween you deserve it!

Ezekiel 7:4
And My eye will not spare you, neither will I have pity; but I will bring recompense for your evil ways upon you, while your abominations are in the midst of you [calling down punishment from a righteous God]; and you shall know (recognize, understand, and realize) that I am the Lord.

Instead, I offer a better way

Exodus 23:24
You must not worship the gods of these nations or serve them in any way or imitate their evil practices. Instead, you must utterly destroy them and smash their sacred pillars.

Job 11:13-1513 If you set your heart aright and stretch out your hands to [God],14 If you put sin out of your hand and far away from you and let not evil dwell in your tents;15 Then can you lift up your face to Him without stain [of sin, and unashamed]; yes, you shall be steadfast and secure; you shall not fear.

Psalm 26:5
I have hated the congregation of evil doers; and will not sit with the wicked.

Psalm 141:4
Incline my heart not to submit or consent to any evil thing or to be occupied in deeds of wickedness with men who work iniquity; and let men not eat of their dainties.

Proverbs 4:14
Enter not into the path of the wicked, and go not in the way of evil men.

1 Timothy 4:1[ Warnings against False Teachers ] Now the Holy Spirit tells us clearly that in the last times some will turn away from the true faith; they will follow deceptive spirits and teachings that come from demons.

Wow This is what should be done Annually

Nehemiah 9:1-3 NLT The People Confess Their Sins

9 On October 31[a] the people assembled again, and this time they fasted and dressed in burlap and sprinkled dust on their heads. 2 Those of Israelite descent separated themselves from all foreigners as they confessed their own sins and the sins of their ancestors. 3 They remained standing in place for three hours[b] while the Book of the Law of the Lord their God was read aloud to them. Then for three more hours they confessed their sins and worshiped the Lord their God.

 Halloween