Arise and call her blessed

This is a pure picture of the heart and feelings that so often arise in a love relationship true passion and desires for intimacy in you both, yet feeling that there is a wall keeping you apart. You yearn so deeply for more, but find a constant beerier. This wall is, even though it is physical, always has a spiritual base to it. It is when we break the spiritual that we can then finally find, and break down the physical wall. I know those days when that wall just seems there, just pray! Prayer is always the first step. You will never find freedom in intimacy without Christ seated firmly in the centre.
Lord, breakthrough this Wall, help me find the roots of our problems, 
and destroy them in your Sons name!
This brings the peace in your heart it is going to be all right, we will breakthrough!
After seeking the fathers help, He will give you revelations; you will all the sudden see the roots. Whether it is, past failures haunting you, or hidden sin that you have not confessed, not only to God but also to your partner, this is actually a big thing. Most people figure; as long as you confess to God you are good, but what did He say;

Matthew 5:23-24 (KJV)
23 Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee;
24 Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.

He says go make it right and then come back to me and say sorry. God desires and commands holiness. To find perfect intimacy, we must have a pure conscience before our partner and our God. Have you ever been so distracted that you cannot do anything, your mind so busy that you can’t work, sleep, or even make love; this is what hidden sin does? It sits and stagnates, as the Holy Spirit tries to get you to make it right. He is not accusing, He is saying you are not done with that, you cannot be right with me, until you are right with the one you sinned against. God wants so much for purity holiness in our homes, and in our hearts, these things secretly, even from you, break down the very timbers that hold up and support our lives. Sin is like a Cancer, spreading through your home. When you have an un-confessed sin, or even a partial un-confessed sin, (which is not confessed at all, as you are doing it in the wrong order) it give allowance to the enemy. You are allowing him to attack your home, your wife, your kids, with sickness, depression, financial troubles. You have an un-repaired hole in the ship and now it feels as though you are sinking. Break the walls today repair the breach. Rebuke the Enemy over your family and break the holds he has in your life and 
YOU WILL SEE VICTORY! -Melody 

The heart the Father is all I desire

Dear heavenly Father

Come and be with me show me, teach me, and create a gentle spirit in me. Take my heart and mold it into the beauty of your image, soften my spirit to my children, a gentle heart, hands, and mouth. Soft word spoken in love, a voice that teaches, loves, and gently leads. Show me how to teach them, and mold them. Keep them pure father for yourself, not taken by the world and it lusts. Purge there little vulnerable minds from the poisons that are thrown at them, from the world and its ways, shelter them under your wings. Keep them tender towards you; carry them in your embrace. Lord show me how to love, not as others love but as you have loved. Create purity within me show me kindness for the things I have done wrong. Use me, use me, and make me a gentle vessel for your every use, a willing and capable servant. Soften me lord, teach me to love, teach me to emulate your passions for love. Turn me, to become precious in the eyes of my husband, mold me into his heart, as a gem to be treasured and loved. Teach me to desire him, to long for him in all purity. Keep my heart only for him, a genuine union of flesh, heart, and mind, united as truly one in peace harmony of purpose and goal. Keep us father; guard my thoughts, and my thoughts towards him. purge my tongue into perfect love, not harsh or degrading, but gentle and uplifting, sweet and kind, submit my heart to wait on you lord, not in my own ideas and times. Mold me into your likeness, to emulate your character. You never harass me, but ever lovingly wait, and wait. Oh father, let your wait not be long, but turn me now, my flesh to your will in all my life. May I glow in your beauty, and not the beauty of man, but of your gentle love. Sweet savior your passions subdue my spirit. You have taken me into a place of peace, a place of mercy, where you alone speak to my heart. Oh how sweet are your words towards me, loving, kind, and gentle. May I forever dwell here with you, at peace in your presence, perfect in your love, which sees past my failures, and joins me to your will, ever leading forward. Press me in deeper, ever deep. Create in me all that you desire, a pure bride fit for your house not a wayward bride running away

Love your Daughter, your Sister, and your beloved Bride   

The turning of the Kings heart - (Faith to change your man)

Every woman wants to see the Lord turn the heart of her husband for his glory but sometimes our motives are not always as they should be often it because we want God to fix something we think is broken, fix a flaw in his character. All these things remain often true but how about me? often we ask God to fix what we are helping to break, my tears flow to think of the thousands of Christian wives who think they are nourishing their relationship by correcting and rebuking their husbands. Ladies this is not your place, if you want God to move on your behalf, shut your mouths, and let him move on our behalf. So many wives come to me and say they wont talk to me, he wont communicate,  we cant get any were. What happened when he tried last? Even if his words were, harsh unrightfully most women snap back. As couples fight for the last words, the biggest dig how can this be God. You are not feeding your relationship love, but a harsh poison that permanently corrupts and stains, this is sin! Ladies Feed love and learn to hold your tongues this is what God says; Proverbs 18:21 (KJV) 21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.

 What are the fruits in your relationship that you are reaping right now? Is there peace in your home or strife? If this is so, than this is why! Sisters I cannot state enough what kind of importance lays within that verse? Proverbs 12:18 The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. Bring healing dear sister speak love into your home gentle words. Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger. We are not fixing or helping the Lord, but getting in the way prolonging the healing. If you keep picking at a scab, it will not heal, and it eventually just turns into a nasty scar. If you want peace, ladies stop picking at the scabs. God is trying to heal your relationship the scabs are a part of that process. Instead, let apply the healing balms of love and sweet words. Proverbs 16:24 Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones. Love Melody

Proverbs 17:27-28 (NLT)

27 A truly wise person uses few words;
    a person with understanding is even-tempered.

28 Even fools are thought wise when they keep silent;
    with their mouths shut, they seem intelligent.

Proverbs 21:1 (NKJV)

21 The king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord,
like the rivers of water;
He turns it wherever He wishes.