The turning of the Kings heart - (Faith to change your man)

Every woman wants to see the Lord turn the heart of her husband for his glory but sometimes our motives are not always as they should be often it because we want God to fix something we think is broken, fix a flaw in his character. All these things remain often true but how about me? often we ask God to fix what we are helping to break, my tears flow to think of the thousands of Christian wives who think they are nourishing their relationship by correcting and rebuking their husbands. Ladies this is not your place, if you want God to move on your behalf, shut your mouths, and let him move on our behalf. So many wives come to me and say they wont talk to me, he wont communicate,  we cant get any were. What happened when he tried last? Even if his words were, harsh unrightfully most women snap back. As couples fight for the last words, the biggest dig how can this be God. You are not feeding your relationship love, but a harsh poison that permanently corrupts and stains, this is sin! Ladies Feed love and learn to hold your tongues this is what God says; Proverbs 18:21 (KJV) 21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.

 What are the fruits in your relationship that you are reaping right now? Is there peace in your home or strife? If this is so, than this is why! Sisters I cannot state enough what kind of importance lays within that verse? Proverbs 12:18 The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. Bring healing dear sister speak love into your home gentle words. Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger. We are not fixing or helping the Lord, but getting in the way prolonging the healing. If you keep picking at a scab, it will not heal, and it eventually just turns into a nasty scar. If you want peace, ladies stop picking at the scabs. God is trying to heal your relationship the scabs are a part of that process. Instead, let apply the healing balms of love and sweet words. Proverbs 16:24 Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones. Love Melody

 

 

Proverbs 17:27-28 (NLT)

27 A truly wise person uses few words;
    a person with understanding is even-tempered.

28 Even fools are thought wise when they keep silent;
    with their mouths shut, they seem intelligent.

Proverbs 21:1 (NKJV)

21 The king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord,
like the rivers of water;
He turns it wherever He wishes.